A lot of people jump into rebound relationships to fill some need or void without actually taking the time to see if they are genuinely attracted to the person. Not just sex appeal. Not just an appreciation for paying attention to you and giving you some validation. Actually loving and caring about this person and wanting to build a relationship and life with them. Make sure you are actually wanting this new commitment you’ve placed yourself into quite rapidly after a relationship you say meant a lot to you.
Be honest with yourself. Were you afraid of being alone or really missed having someone around? Were you looking to replace what you lost by having a partner? Were you so sick of your ex that the first person you met seemed absolutely excellent “by comparison?” Did you fall out of love a long time ago and the break up was well overdue? It is important to come to terms with what motivated you so that you can address that issue and be a healthy partner for this new person.
Unfortunately, only you can answer that question. I recommend you take some time to consider your emotional state right now. You may seem fine but if you are questioning your actions, you are acting against your own better judgement. So I highly recommend you slow things down in your current relationship before things get too complicated so you can think about what might have lead you to do this and ensure your heart is in the right place before you move any more forward.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
I’ve made the rebound relationship mistake in the past. To prevent myself from doing it again, I made a rule to casually date a person for at least a couple of months before getting intimately serious with them. I know that might seem to be moving very slowly given modern life but I wanted to ensure I was past any infatuation for them before considering commitment. Refraining from complications brought on by intimacy early on makes life a hell of a lot easier to handle emotionally. Especially when you have that itching feeling that you should not feel so comfortable with someone new just yet. Give your mind and heart a chance to catch up with your groin so your decisions will be in alignment will all aspects of your desires.
